Category Archives: Relationships

The Intentional Relationship Based Life Of Love

Today’s show topic on Violet Wisdom Inspiration Radio with hosts Molly Friedenfeld and Marie Langle is all about the importance of living an Intentional Relationship Based Life of Love.  Life is all about relationships – it’s not about the cars, the clothes, the cash. Life truly is all about relationships. When we leave this earth we all know the material things that have taken a lifetime to acquire must stay behind.  So why not put the focus and energy on those things that you do get to pack in your spiritual bags when you leave this dimension – those very memories of the relationships that were formed along the way.

Today’s radio show – The Intentional Relationship Based Life of Love:

  • How to have an intentional relationship based, event or family get together.
  • How to have live a life that is full of love and light.
  • How to create a “pay it forward” movement instead receiving gifts.
  • How to have a wedding that leaves the guests thanking you for the opportunity of being present at your union instead of viewing it as an obligation.
  • Making a conscious decision to live a life in which relationships come first.

In India, the Hindu marriage ceremony is over 5,000 years old. The marriage ceremony is performed in the presence of a sacred fire and an assembly of family and friends. There are many different steps in the ceremony but it’s the same basic concept.  The valuing of the relationship between all the people not just the bride and groom is what is important.

Saptapadi meaning Seven steps and Seven vows.  Here are just a few of these steps:

▪   Together we live with honor and respect, providing the necessities of life for each other and our family members.

▪   Together we will develop mental, physical and spiritual balance.

▪   Together we walk acquire knowledge, happiness and harmony through mutual love, trust and respect for our elders.

▪   Together we will maintain self restraint and longevity.

These principles really are synonymous across all religions.  If you break this all down again it’s all about valuing relationships of all those around you.

Intentional Relationship Based Wedding Tips:

  • Create a wedding day that is relationship based and not event based.
  • Make your event personal by keeping your guest numbers down.
  • Keep your stress level down on the big day by making it a point to stay within your bridal budget.

Click on the Blog Talk Radio Picture to listen to Molly Friedenfeld and Marie Langlie on Blog Talk Radio – 12/28/11 The Intentional Relationship Based Life of Love.

Tune in as Molly Friedenfeld and Marie Langlie hosts of the Violet Wisdom Inspiration Radio Show talk about how to live and Intentional Relationship Based Life of Love.

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Quotes of the Week 

Here’s a quote that backs up why to love your husband unconditionally. Love your wife unconditionally. The future of your children depend on it…

“What must it be like for a little boy to read that daddy never loved mummy?

~ Princess Diana


“If we live good lives, the times are also good.  As we are, such are the times.”

Saint Augustine of Hippo (354-430)

Host:  Molly Friedenfeld

Guest Host:  Marie Langlie

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It’s the Amish Way

Since the launch of my new blog, The Simply Chic Bride, I have received many great comments, emails and feedback from friends and fellow bloggers.  People have said it’s really cute and I say, don’t you mean chic :)?  Readers have commented and said they have found useful links and great information contained within this blog, but many are asking me to define the concept behind The Simply Chic Bride.

So here it is:  The Simply Chic Bride is all about finding the beauty in simplicity during the entire wedding planning process.

It’s about getting out in front of your upcoming wedding by doing something each day to have forward movement and progress so that when your big day arrives you arrive in Simply Chic style, within your budget, without stress and hopefully you make some new friends and form new relationships along the way.

It’s about inviting your family and your closest friends to your wedding and “connecting” with them.  These are the people that would love nothing more than to attend this beautiful occasion and enjoy it with you.  These wouldn’t be the people that would say, “Yes, I have to go to another wedding this weekend.”  The Simply Chic Bride’s people would say, “My family member or dear friends are getting married and I can’t wait to go to their wedding.”

It’s about being mindful in really knowing who is on your guest list – it’s not about “the big show” and inviting so many people that you don’t know each and every person attending, personally.

It’s about being a kind, gracious and a thankful bride – not a Bridezilla.  It’s about the groom too.  How many grooms have you known that got lost in the wedding shuffle? The bride completely steamrolled through the entire process spending money and making decisions without involving her beloved.  Is this foreshadowing how it’s going to be once they are married?  Decisions should always be mutual, don’t forget there are two of you exchanging vows.

The Simply Chic Bride is the polar opposite to the popular TV show, Say Yes To The Dress, where many times the bride calls her fiancé on the phone to convince him to spend hundreds or even thousands over her bridal budget on a dress that will be worn for just 4.5 hours, yikes!  Decisions made under duress, as we all know, never turn out well.

It’s about doing things “The Amish way,” by keeping things simple and utilizing those within your friends and family network for assistance with ideas, services and skills.

Have you ever met a stressed out Amish person?  The answer most likely is no.  Reaching out to their friends and family network and the bonds they have created are so strong that stress and anxiety are not allowed to be a big part of their lives.  If someone needs a barn built, or heck, if a bride needs a wedding dress made, those in the community all pitch in to help out.  It’s a way of life that seems tested by time.

By doing things the Amish way and The Simply Chic Bride way you can accomplish great things on many different levels.  Not only are you assisting those in your friends and family network by hiring them during these tough economic times, but you are blessing them with the opportunity to be a part of your big day.  In return, I guarantee, you will receive the best service or skills they can offer.  Who has your back better than friends and family?

The Simply Chic Bride way is all about being grateful that you’ve found the love of your life and letting others know that too by modeling good communication skills, decision making skills and yes, sometimes negotiation skills, during the planning and preparation process between the bride and groom leading up to your wedding day.

And most importantly, The Simply Chic Bride way doesn’t want you to flash forward to your wedding day by wishing yourself into the future. The wedding planning process is a part of living. Keeping things simple will prevent you from falling into the flash forwarding trap. If you find yourself saying, “I can’t wait until our wedding and these details are behind us.”  There is something definitely wrong and adjustments need to be made.

Instead, be present in the planning – embrace the entire process right down to picking out your shoes.  To accomplish this it may mean getting up an hour earlier for work so you have a little time to do research online before heading to the office.

The Simply Chic Bride would like to leave you with this quote…

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

Leonardo Da Vinci

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